“When I just have that nice house and new car, then I can be happy.” But in reality, happiness is available to all of us, right now. A big house or a new car won’t actually make you happier; it’s the simple joys in life that bring true happiness
Lesson no. 1:- Before writing this lesson i want to mention a quote which i read last month “When he’s born the man is soft and weak,in death he becomes tough and harder”
Stiff and hard is companion of death,what is soft and week is companion of life
So if you want to be alive you have to be flexible, not in terms of our body but in terms of mind,in terms of thinking,in terms of our belief
Atleast try to be as soft as possible in terms of thinking
If you want to achieve the state of bliss
Your mind should be at state of piece
Lesson no.2:- stop expecting from others
In life, dont expect anything from anyone.
Because expectation, when not fulfilled, gives you pain.
When you get something without expecting it,
It gives you pleasure.
Keep doing your part
And leave the rest to God
Never expect things to happen.. struggle and make them happen. never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own.
Lesson no. 3:- don’t believe too much in love
When you have a good heart: You help too much. You trust too much. You give too much. You love too much. And it always seems you hurt the most.
If you fall in river there is boat ,
IF you fall in well there is rope ,
But if you fall in love there is no hope
Lesson no.4:- Start respecting yourself
Self-Respect is everything that you have and you really have to keep care of it. Self-Respect will help you to keep your head high when you face the world and keep yourself in dignity
Some people don’t deserve you! Don’t waste your time on them. If you are a diamond stay in high end show rooms. Else people will consider you a broken piece of ordinary glass.
Lesson no. 5 :- be yourself
Last but not the least is being yourself
To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on.
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” Accept who you are, just be yourself, and you’ll feel a world of difference.
P.S. :- this is my point of view your thoughts may differ from me so no offense