“When I just have that nice house and new car, then I can be happy.” But in reality, happiness is available to all of us, right now. A big house or a new car won’t actually make you happier; it’s the simple joys in life that bring true happiness

Lesson no. 1:- Before writing this lesson  i want to mention a quote which i read last month “When he’s born the man is soft and weak,in death he becomes tough and harder”

Stiff and hard is companion of death,what is soft and week is companion of life 

So if you want to be alive you have to be flexible, not in terms of our body but in terms of mind,in terms of thinking,in terms of our belief

Atleast try to be as soft as possible in terms of thinking

If you want to achieve the state of bliss

Your mind should be at state of piece
Lesson no.2:- stop expecting from others

In life, dont expect anything from anyone.

Because expectation, when not fulfilled, gives you pain.

When you get something without expecting it,

It gives you pleasure.

Keep doing your part

And leave the rest to God

Never expect things to happen.. struggle and make them happen. never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own.
Lesson no. 3:- don’t believe too much in love
When you have a good heart: You help too much. You trust too much. You give too much. You love too much. And it always seems you hurt the most.
If you fall in river there is boat ,

IF you fall in well there is rope ,

But if you fall in love there is no hope
Lesson no.4:- Start respecting yourself

Self-Respect is everything that you have and you really have to keep care of it. Self-Respect will help you to keep your head high when you face the world and keep yourself in dignity

Some people don’t deserve you!  Don’t waste your time on them.  If you are a diamond stay in high end show rooms. Else people will consider you a broken piece of ordinary glass.

Lesson no. 5 :- be yourself 

Last  but not the least is being yourself 

To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” Accept who you are, just be yourself, and you’ll feel a world of difference.
P.S. :- this is my point of view your thoughts may differ from me so no offense 



Post-heartbreak, people tend to be  self-destructive and act like a shithead for a while ,They do drink,smoke or cry excessively but There are so many things you can do to get your mind off the last girl if you are willing to put in the effort.

My broken heart was put back together in the gym.

I feel like a new person living in a new body.
When she broke up with me I thought my world was over and my life had peaked,Then i decided to step in gym coz I can cry during the workout, and no one notices because it mixes with the sweat.  I now realize I am standing at the bottom of the “mountain of awesome” and have so much more climbing to do.

I am so excited about the future!

Life is so awesome.

Looks like life is only going to get better

Now i believe in the fact that “one run can change your day n many run can change your life”

I was aware of the fact that your future is created by today,not by tommorow and your only limit is you 

I’m pretty sure a lot of people are/were in your same shoes. I started working out because I had no love life whatsoever. It’s amazing what working out can do for your self-esteem.
Sometimes it takes something serious like that to get your shit together. Nothing like proving someone wrong with success.
Working out has changed my life. I grew as a man so much more than my muscles have, and am in a much more healthy place – both physically and in how I see myself
Keeping the ending simple I wanna say that you shouldn’t give up , coz I already know how giving up feels like,so I wanted to see

What happen if I don’t.


I’m  SORRY🙉🙏

I am sorry for loving you sooo much

I’m sorry for missing you

I am sorry for wanting a smile on ur face at every moment

 I am sorry for thinking about you when I go to sleep

I am sorry for wanting to be by your side

I am sorry  for wanting to make you happy

I am sorry for wanting uh to be a part of my lyf

I am sorry For day dreaming about you

I’m sorry for  replying to your messages as soon as possible 

I’m sorry for getting mad n sad when uh reply me late

I’m sorry for thinking that you may also love me

I am sorry for my regular messages and always just  caring about you

I am sorry for loosing my self respect just to make you feel special 

I am sorry for forgiving you,when your ego didn’t allowed you to say sorry


One sided love💔

Falling in love with someone you know you can’t have,it is the most painfull,heartbraking and purest of all

And yet you love them more than you ever loved yourselves ,now that’s a brave thing to do

Most people say that it’s a foolish thing to do but may be they are the ones who’ve never experienced that

People get involved in one sided love because sometimes they are afraid to confess and sometimes coz they know they have found the one they been always looking for

It’s a journey without any destination or hope and yet they keep walking with a smile on their faces

People who’re in one sided love they know the fact that we cannot find love but love will find us

The problem is that we all want happy endings , everyone wants a guarantee in love.if they’re loving someone they also want it back but that’s not love it’s trading.

But do you know what’s really foolish?

To convince yourself that you’ll find someone else but that’s a lie we keep on telling ourselves 

Then there are people who get in one sided love who give it all and spend their whole life in memories of that one person

Now ask yourself what could be more beautiful than this,t hey wake up early in the morning knowing that they’ll sleep in tears but yet they keep loving them from a distance 

One sided lovers aren’t stalkers but they are brave souls who dared to love someone without any expectations 


Attraction😍 vs true love💑

wp-1483720523725.jpgOne has to understand that feelings are always temporary, and are part of our day to day life

One of the biggest misconception we are living with is that attraction is love

Attraction is based on what we see but love is based on what we know

If we simply differentiate love and attraction attraction gives temporary pleasure but permanent pain

And love gives temporary pain but permanent pleasures

Love is a feeling that is beyond pain and pleasures

Along with attraction , expectations are also there but when you love someone/something there are no expectations

Have you ever met a person ,spent some time with that person ,and felt something special for that person

That’s not love basically it’s just attraction

Love is a stage when you start feeling sad, when that person is not in a good mood, and you feel happy, when you see smile on that person’s face

True love just doesn’t happen in a day,a week or a month.It takes time

some believe in luv at first site ,actually it’s not love but it’s infatuation And there is a thin line of difference between infatuation and love that infatuation is just for a time frame but love is permanent.